Omelette ... or a Scrambled Egg ??

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It was a lovely winter morning. Me, having my most favorite breakfast; omelette and strong tea with crispy toasted bread. While looking at my treat, a thought comes to my mind... When we try to become someone that we are not, it gets to look like butter scraped over too much bread.

Seriously, we are not meant to be omelettes, are we??? What actually started playing with my mind was the mutual understanding that a couple has... Just like the egg yolk in white. Having your own qualities, your vision, but when together, having your personalities becoming one identity. One whole life in an egg shell with just two components; whisk together to get a perfect omelette (but you might not want to scramble your life☺). Merge into each other, but when you stand alone, be yourself! 

The very first mistake that couples make is that they try to change themselves as they think their spouse would want them to, but apparently it works for some phase, however it doesn't last long. Their persona uncovers them and there the battle begins. Statements like "you used to be like that", "you have changed", "you used to love me more" etc. are often heard when couples fight. Ever thought why?

As I come across many people, I've observed they want their spouse to make them feel special but actually they camouflage their speciality with picturing a mental image of their perfect selves. They try to make themselves different from what they are and they mess up. Having weaknesses and flaws are a part of everyone's personality, and it is nothing to be ashamed of. Trying to improve oneself might be helpful rather than hiding behind a veil. 

Being yourself from the very first day is the recipe to success. Begin your life with entire sincerity, without impressing each other in short term basis. Always remember that your spouse loves you because you are YOU! but for doing this, you need to accept yourself with all your positives and negatives. 

A yolk has to be a yolk and vice versa. When you have enjoyed your separate entity, then its better to add spices or scramble up mutually. Blend in to get the desired mouth watering puffy cheesy omelette :P and its up to you if you want a scrambled egg out of your life :)